Only Us (continued)

Everyone is doing the best they can. We may not be doing the best that we are capable of. We may not be doing as well as we did yesterday. But we are always doing the best we can at any given moment in time. It does no good, therefore, to harass or punish someone because she’s not doing as well as you would like or even as well as she would like. The most effective thing to do is to help her figure out what is preventing her from doing better. And she will even help you.